Peacock Tail wrote:It is pretty naive to think that people on a BOC fan forum are here to see people piss and moan about them.
People have the right to express a negative opinion about BOC here. But remember it enriches next to NOBODY who reads it. People may feel better for getting something off their chest, but somebody else secretly hates you for it, as you are probably hating the thing they hold dear. No one wins. So why bother?
People are probably better off exercising their right to keep quiet.
The title of this thread always suggested that this wasn't going to end well.
Just like 'TH Good or Bad?' won't either.
People aren't here to read about what BOC are bad at, regardless of anybody's opinion.
You can't be sure of that I'm afraid. BOC are not perfect, like any humans they deserve criticism and many of us are OK with that. Yes, we are fanatics and we love this band to death, but many of us here my self included take no issue whatsoever with contrasting opinions on their work. You'll notice that I replied in a agreement to mexi's post on the other thread, but not because I don't welcome the idea, but because like this one I fear it will descend into petty insults. People on both sides seem to be firing those off at each other and it makes me a bit sad.
"But remember it enriches next to NOBODY who reads it. "
I respectfully disagree. People aren't born with a taste in music, they learn and adapt at all ages, and criticism is a fundamental part of developing taste along with predisposed leanings. I can heartily say that I have found my self agreeing with a certain proportion of the statements made by Naj and Rod, even though on a more general level I differ from them. Some of the things they have said I had not thought of in the same perspective, and that has certainly enriched my own views.
BOC particularly lend themselves to insightful criticism because as we all know their music is highly intellectual and they themselves appear to be intelligent.
My point is, I don't dislike anyone here for what they have said. We are a smart and unique bunch of people, certainly smart enough to recognise what we vehemently disagree with, and if we reminded ourselves once in a while that we are surprisingly gifted in that ability we would foster a less nasty environment in this thread without censoring ourselves.